ASH-Glover someone cause you can be tough, strong, irritating, knowledgeable and strategic, caring, sweet, sometimes vulnerable, generally formidable.
Penelope Cruise and Catherine Zeta-Jones don't have the right vibe, but Penelope Cruise is pretty in a way that has things in common with the way you are pretty, and Catherine Zeta-Jones seems together and clear, like she uses her mind. But again, not exactly the right.